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Extended Time and Boredom

I think I may have stumbled onto an additional journey concept—or maybe it’s better described as an evolution of how I’d like to move through the world for a while.

Ice on the Screen, Marlin Spike, and a Hot Fire

I’ve lived aboard for about two years now. For the most part, it’s been rather lovely: never staying in one place more than a few days or a week, drifting from one bayou or bay to another, rarely venturing very far. Just being an aquatic vagabond, unhurried and largely content.

This way of living has been enormously helpful in my recovery after the accident years ago.

Physically, I plateaued a long time back. The surgical repairs are as good as they’re ever going to be, and the things that weren’t dealt with represent a permanent reduction in what I can do. I’ve tested it a few times—two or three days of hard yakka—and the result is always the same: a week or two laid up in bed, chewing pain meds and wondering why I didn’t already know better.

Mentally and emotionally, the recovery has been slower and far more frustrating. My short-term memory and brain fog come and go—some days sharp, some days not so much—but the brain-training exercises seem to be helping, if slowly. Anxiety still visits from time to time. Most days I’m steady and even-keeled, but occasionally, for no obvious reason, everything feels threatening. Those episodes are becoming less frequent and less intense, which tells me progress is happening, whether I notice it or not.

Living mostly alone on the boat these past couple of years has helped me become more self-reliant and more comfortable with who I am now—because I’m definitely not the same person I was before the accident. I’ve leaned on close friends and family when I needed to, but learning to manage life aboard on my own has been profoundly beneficial.

As the winter of 2026 approached, I felt an increasing pull to journey farther afield. Around that time, I listened to a psychiatrist give a TED talk on the virtue of boredom—pleasant boredom, specifically. The idea was that when we allow ourselves to be bored, our imagination wakes up and starts whispering what if?

I set off on the very first day of 2026. It felt intentional, maybe even a little ceremonial. I’m now at the tail end of my second week away, and honestly, it feels like I’ve been gone for months. That creates a bit of friction in my head. Part of me feels like I’m dawdling, moving too slowly. But I also know that feeling is just my perception, not reality.

The reality is this is exactly what I dreamed of and planned for.

I’ve Lost Track of Time, Here

I’ve come to understand that I live with something called time blindness. Many people experience it as chronic lateness or missed deadlines—I know one well; I’m married to her. For me, it’s different. I actually enjoy being on time, or a bit early. My version of time blindness is not realizing how much time has passed. Days, weeks, even years can slip by without my noticing.

So while I’ve only been gone a couple of weeks, it feels like a month or more, as though I’ve been doodling along without purpose. In one sense, that’s true—I am slow traveling. But I’m not wasting time.

From the beginning, my plan was simple: travel only when conditions favor the direction I want to go. If the wind or weather disagrees, leave the anchor down, pour another cup of coffee, and enjoy where I am.

He’s Got The Right Idea

I’ve been doing exactly that, but my thinking around it has shifted slightly. Originally, I’d wait out foul or contrary weather and move on as soon as conditions turned favorable. The evolution is this: if I’m held in a place for two or three days by bad weather, I now find myself wanting to spend an equal amount of time there once the conditions are good—to actually enjoy the place at its best.

What that means, of course, is that the slow journey just got slower. I’m going to take a lot longer to get anywhere I might eventually want to end up.

Take my current anchorage. I arrived sooner than planned because sitting at Navarre—wedged between condominiums and a busy bridge, wrapped in damp, clammy fog—wasn’t pleasant. Once I dropped the hook here, I was greeted by two or three days of dense fog, visibility down under a hundred feet, everything on deck soaked and dripping. When the fog finally lifted, it was followed by a couple of cold days with gusts up to 25 knots.

Days of This

That’s nearly a week gone. After that came two days of perfect breeze, blowing exactly where I wanted to go. Under the original plan, I would’ve weighed anchor and carried on. The downside would’ve been leaving this lovely anchorage—tucked behind a small island, sheltered from wind and wakes—without ever seeing it in decent conditions.

So the new working plan is this: if I find myself stuck in a good place because of bad weather, I stay long enough afterward to enjoy it when it’s kind.

I know this turns an already slow journey into an even more drawn-out one. And for the life of me, I can’t see how that’s a problem—except, perhaps, the very real risk of running out of rum before the next planned resupply.

This now allows me more time to be bored.

Excellence in Boredom

I still do what needs to be done—boat maintenance, fixing things before they become emergencies, and poking away at what may or may not turn into a writing career. None of that goes away. Old boats are very good at reminding you when you’ve ignored them.

But somewhere in all of this I’ve also given myself permission to do nothing. To sit. To stare. To let boredom show up and make itself comfortable. After a while it stops being annoying and starts doing useful work, which is unexpected and slightly suspicious.

Once boredom settles in, my imagination can wander off on its own. It disappears down rabbit holes without asking whether the trip will be productive or even sensible. I follow along, mostly to see what happens. Sometimes it leads nowhere. Sometimes it hints at where this odd, stripped-down life might be headed.

Honestly, It’s Not Wasted Time

I’ve learned that boredom isn’t wasted time. It’s just the part of the day where nothing is officially happening, and everything important is quietly lining up.

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Exploring the Gulf ICW

For the first two weeks of 2026 I’ve been gunk-holing along the Gulf Intracoastal Waterway. The weather has set the journey rhythm instead of the calendar or some imaginary deadline I’d feel obligated to obey. When conditions are good for slow comfortable cruising, I make miles—sometimes under sail, sometimes with the steady reassurance of the engine helping out. I know it’s not a purist way of sailing, but I don’t care, it’s seriously relaxing.

When the weather turns foul or even just vaguely disagreeable, I just tuck myself into some quiet, comfortable corner and wait it out. No drama, no heroics. Just patience, a good anchorage, and a sip of rum. It’s a very relaxing way of moving through the world, kind of like strolling instead of marching.

That said, if you’re the sort who stares at the chart, does the math, and thinks to themselves, “My God, I’ve only gone that far!?”—this style of cruising may drive you a little mad. Progress, in the conventional sense, is glacial. Some days the log shows no change at all, and entire weeks can vanish as if you’ve forgotten to make an entry, but it’s just time invested in simply existing.

For me, though, it’s right up my alley. I’ve never been particularly impressed by distance for its own sake. I’ve got friends in the sea kayaking world that love spending entire days paddling in open water, far from land. My place of passion was just outside the surf break, where the world gets dynamic, where life interacts and your a part of it. I’d rather know one place well than rush past ten of them just to say I did it.

Yep, I can hang in my Hammock while steering

On the first of January I struck out for the vast horizon with all the ceremonial gravitas such a moment deserves… and went twelve miles. There I stayed there for four or five days. It was wonderful. There were only a couple of neighbors, the kind that drift in quietly, stay a night or two, and then vanish without much ado at all. I walked nearly that same twelve miles distance, this time on foot, wandering along the local island beaches. I watched fish cruise the shallows, birds going about whatever inscrutable bird business they conduct, and the trainer jets roaring around overhead, reminding me that while I was moving at the speed of weather and tide, the rest of the world was very much not. The whole affair was delightfully laid back, the days blurring together in that pleasant way that only happens when nothing is demanding your attention.

After about a week the weather forecast lined up perfectly. Clear skies, ten to twelve knots blowing exactly where I wanted to go—one of those rare predictions that reads like a personal invitation. I thought to myself “Excellent, just what I wanted”… It was wrong.

It Started Well

It started out well enough. The breeze was building, the sails were full and drawing nicely, and for a brief window in time everything felt aligned. Then, with no warning, the wind simply gave up. It didn’t shift or misbehave; it just went away. So I started the motor and settled into a long day of motor-sailing, hoping the breeze might remember it had an appointment. It didn’t. Eventually I dropped the sails altogether and just puttered along, the engine rumbling away like it was mildly disappointed in me.

Late in the day enough breeze wandered back to justify hoisting the mainsail again, more as moral support for the engine than anything else. It wasn’t doing much—until the last few miles leading into the anchorage at Navarre, Florida. There, as if to make amends, the wind filled in just right and suddenly we were making about seven knots under the mainsail alone, gliding in as though the entire day had been carefully choreographed rather than haphazardly improvised.

I dropped the anchor just off Juana’s Tiki Bar at Navarre, jumped into the dink, and went ashore for a cold beer. Perspective has a way of returning once there’s condensation on the glass. All in all, it wasn’t a terrible day—just a little frustrating, the nautical equivalent of being promised a smooth road trip and ending up in construction zones all afternoon.

Juana’s Tiki Bar

I’d planned to hang there for a day or two, but the weather turned overcast and a bit dreary. Add in nighttime bridge traffic and the glow of condo lights bouncing around the fog, and the place lost its charm for me. Pretty in its own way—but not the kind of pretty I’m after. I prefer my nights darker and quieter, even if fog does make the condos look like ghost ships suspended in the mist.

The next stop was Spectre Island, tucked into a skinny stretch of the ICW near Mary Esther, Florida. It’s a little jewel of a spot, with a delightful anchorage tucked in behind it—fully protected from weather and boat wakes, the kind of place that immediately makes you breathe easier once the hook is down.

While I was there, the fog rolled in and it stayed for days, all day. Visibility dropped below a hundred feet at times, and it’s remarkable how claustrophobic it feels to sit inside a cloud. Sound and light shrink down to almost nothing, and without any real reference points the world feels oddly unreal. It’s like being stuck in a dream you can’t quite wake up from, where everything is muffled and close and slightly wrong.

Barely Two Boat Lengths

Then, eventually, the fog lifts. The sky opens up and reveals blue again, and it looks impossibly bright, as if someone turned the saturation knob all the way up. The contrast is startling and wonderful, a reminder of just how much you’d been missing without realizing it. Moments like that feel like a small reward for moving slowly enough to be there when they happen.

Not a Bad Way to Start the Day

I’ve still got a couple of days with wind gusts approaching 30 knots so I’ll remain here at anchor, watch the stingrays and herons, enjoy the surf sounds coming from the Gulf, and drink coffee and sip rum. After the front passes I’ll spend nearly a week getting to the clear emerald waters around Panama City Beach area, and do the same thing for a while.

Someone’s got to do it.

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Dinghy Cruising West Florida

Slowly sailing east from Pirates Cove, Alabama, with the intention of bumping into places interesting.

Pirates Cove~Alabama

At around thirty-five feet long, the Wharram Tangaroa is certainly not a dinghy, but she does share some dinghy like qualities. For example, with a draft of only two and half feet, if we run aground I can jump in the water and push us off. And, to be honest, there has been a couple times where the depth of water and choice of direction have been at odds.

All sails can be easily raised and lowered by one person, as can the anchor with the help of a winch to pull it from sucky mud. The ketch rig balances well, and helps tremendously when tacking through light wind.

‘Curious’ is not a boat that encourages speed or a rushed schedule. She has enough volume in the hulls to accommodate long distance cruising, but overall is small enough to gunk-hole along the coast like a sailing dinghy.

Small-ish ~ Simple

We are not coastal cruisers in the traditional sense. We are dinghy cruisers who happen to be able to sleep aboard in a full sized bed and cook in a wrap around galley. My schedule is defined by which beach we’d like to stop at, our navigation is done in shade, and our overall distance ambition is an ever changing concept.

Lots of Lonely Coastline

The western coast of Florida—beginning roughly around Perdido Bay and stretching east then south in broad, slow waters—is a place uniquely suited to shallow draft boats and slow days. It is not dramatic coastline. There are no majestic cliffs throwing themselves into the sea with crashing waves, no lighthouses with heroic backstories, no fat ocean swells coming from the Gulf of Mexico. Instead there is water that behaves itself, land that doesn’t ask for much, and an endless series of places where a shallow-draft catamaran can slip in, drop the hook, and immediately forget what day it is.

Which for me happens fairly often.

Heading out on a small adventure

This western end of the Florida panhandle and coastal Alabama is a civilized place to provision, repair, delay departure, and find reasons not to leave. The shoulder seasons of Fall and Spring are unbelievably comfortable weather wise. The weather forecasts however, are largely theoretical.

The Gulf Coast, at least in this stretch, operates on a system of how much, and from which direction the wind blows. The winds control the water depth more than tides, the tides arrive whenever they please, and squalls behave like drunks in a bar. They turn up, make a mess, then disappear. This makes it ideal for people like me, who prefer sailing plans that can be altered mid-sentence.

When we finally leave Pirates Cove, our Tangaroa slides along with the soft competence of a boat that has done this before and doesn’t feel the need to comment on it. The water shifts from forest greens to coastal blues with something resembling tea with too much milk in various places. The shoreline gets a little more remote. The buildings retreat. Trees and beaches take over.

Progress becomes optional.

The Gospel of the Dinghy

On a boat like this, the dinghy is not just an accessory. It is the primary means of resupply and exploring the really shallow places. The big boat is for sleeping, cooking, fixing things, and arguing with my cat about anchor scope. The dinghy is for jaunting about.

A Little Cat for the Big Cat

Florida’s west coast is riddled with shallow bays, creeks, passes, and unnamed bits of water that appear to exist solely to reward curiosity. The Tangaroa can nose into many of them, and the dinghy can go everywhere else. These little bays are shallow enough that stingrays ripple the surface when they scurry away and sea grass covered mud flats are home to Blue Crabs, Speckled Trout, and Manatees when deep enough. Skinny creeks that are narrow enough to make you question your choices but not enough to make you turn around. Even when a 6-8 foot alligator launches from the bank 20 feet from the dink.

This is where the Wharram design shines—not because it is fast (it can be), or stable (it is), but because it frees you from the tyranny of marinas. You anchor somewhere quiet, lower the dinghy, and the coastline opens up like a long conversation you don’t have to finish.

Some days the dinghy trip ashore is a purposeful affair—water jugs, groceries, a cold beer at a bar. Other days it is entirely recreational. You row simply because the water looks pleasantly rowable.

Anchoring as an Art Form

Anchoring along this coast is less about technique and more about manners. You choose places where your presence feels appropriate. Places that won’t mind you staying a while, away from the crowds and condo’s.

Delightfully Alone

There are broad bays where you can swing all day without bothering anyone. Narrow creeks where the trees lean in close enough to overhear your thoughts. Sand-bottom coves where the anchor sets with a quiet confidence that makes you trust it more than you probably should.

The Tangaroa, with her twin hulls and shallow draft, settles into these places without fuss. She does not roll. She does not complain. She allows you to forget that boats are supposed to move.

At anchor, time stretches. Breakfast becomes a relaxing process. Reading becomes an activity that takes up way too much time. Maintenance tasks expand to fill whatever space the day provides.

And then there is the dinghy again—waiting patiently, like a dog who knows you’ll eventually want to go somewhere.

Shore Life, Lightly Touched

The west coast towns are not destinations so much as interruptions. Small places with boat ramps, bait shops, post offices, and restaurants that serve food you didn’t know you missed until you smelled it from the dinghy.

Apalachicola

You come ashore salty, and slightly out of step with land-based time. People are kind. They’re curious, but not intrusive. They ask where you came from, then where you’re going, which is the correct question.

There is a particular pleasure in tying up the dinghy somewhere unofficial—no signs, no docks, just a bit of sand that looks as though it has been used before and will be used again. You walk into town knowing you’ll be leaving the same way you arrived: quietly.

Weather, Briefly Considered

Weather along this stretch is a background character. It exists, it has opinions, but it rarely insists on being the center of attention, unless it’s towering up and dark. Morning calms, afternoon breezes, the occasional rain squall that announces itself politely before passing through.

You learn to read the horizon rather than the forecast. You notice how the air feels. How the birds behave. How the boat feels as it dances with the wavelets at anchor.

Certainly Agreeable

Sailing days are chosen not because they are perfect but because they seem agreeable. The Tangaroa responds to this approach with steady, forgiving performance. She will sail in very little wind and tolerate quite a bit more than you’d planned for.

When conditions turn unfriendly, there is almost always somewhere nearby to hide. A bay, a hook behind an island whose name you never learn.

The Pleasure of Not Getting There

Progress southward is incremental. Measured in familiar anchorages and new ones that feel familiar immediately. You may travel ten or twenty miles in a day. Or none at all.

This is dinghy-style cruising: the big boat is transportation between playgrounds. The coast reveals itself in pieces small enough to appreciate. You learn the texture of different waters. The smell of different shorelines. The way the light changes in the late afternoon when the sun slides down into the gulf instead of cliffs.

Feels Kinda Magical

You stop caring where you are on the chart and start caring how the sun feels on deck.

Why This Coast Works

Florida’s western coast doesn’t call for heroics. It rewards attentiveness. It favors shallow draft, patience, and a willingness to spend an afternoon going nowhere in particular.

A Wharram Tangaroa fits this environment not because it was designed for Florida specifically, but because it was designed for people who value access over speed and simplicity over convenience. It’s a boat that forgives indecision and encourages lingering.

Cruising here feels less like travel and more like temporary residency. You are not passing through so much as borrowing space.

Evening

At the end of the day, the dinghy comes back aboard or is tied off astern, depending on mood and mosquitoes. The anchor holds. The light fades. The sounds shift from boats to birds to something you assume is a fish but could be anything.

Best Restaurant

You cook something simple. You eat it slowly. Sip a little rum for captains hour. Then sit and watch the water change color until it decides to stop.

Tomorrow you might sail. Or you might not. Either way, the coast will still be there, doing what it does best: offering just enough to make staying worthwhile.

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